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An Elfs’ Tale

Wishing You a Merry Christmas from 1-GoodDeedaDay.com

A heartwarming Christmas story to get us into the spirit of things.

An Elf’s Tale – From Chicken Soup for the Soul: Christmas Cheer

It was six o’clock at the mall, and I was as exhausted as an elf on Christmas Eve.  In fact, I was an elf and it was Christmas Eve.  That December of my sixteenth year, I’d been working two jobs to help my parents with my school tuition and to make a little extra holiday money.  My second job was as an elf for Santa to help with kids’ photos.  Between my two jobs, I’d worked twelve hours straight the day before; on Christmas Eve, things were so busy at Santaland that I hadn’t even had a coffee break all day.  But this was it — only minutes more, and I’d have survived!

I looked over at Shelly, our manager, and she gave me an encouraging smile.  She was the reason I’d made it through.  She’d been thrown in as manager halfway through the season, and she’d made all the difference in the world.  My job had changed from stress-filled to challenging.  Instead of yelling at her workers to keep us in line, she encouraged us and stood behind us.  She made us pull together as a team.  Especially when things were their craziest, she always had a smile and an encouraging word.  Under her leadership, we’d achieved the highest number of mall photo sales in California.

I knew it was a difficult holiday season for her — she’d recently suffered a miscarriage.  I hoped she knew how great she was and what a difference she’d made to all her workers, and to all the little children who’d come to have their pictures taken.

Our booth was open until seven;  at six, things started to slow down and I finally took a break.  Although I didn’t have much money, I really wanted to buy a little gift for Shelly so that she’d know we appreciated her.  I got to a store that sold soap and lotion just as they put the grate down.  “Sorry, we’re closed!” barked the clerk, who looked as tired as I was and didn’t sound sorry at all.

I looked around and, to my dismay, found that all the stores had closed.  I’d been so tired I hadn’t noticed.

I was really bummed.  I had been working all day and had missed buying her a present by one minute.

On my way back to the Santa booth, I saw that Nordstrom was still open.  Fearful that they, too, would close at any moment, I hurried inside and followed the signs toward the Gift Gallery.  As I rushed through the store, I began to feel very conspicuous.  It seemed the other shoppers were all very well-dressed and wealthy — and here I was a broke teenager in an elf costume.  How could I even think I’d find something in such a posh store for under fifteen dollars?

I self-consciously jingled my way into the Gift Gallery.  A woman sales associate, who also looked as if she’d just stepped off a fashion runway, came over and asked if she could help me.  As she did, everyone in the department turned and stared.

As quietly as possible, I said, “No, that’s okay.  Just help somebody else.”

She looked right at me and smiled.  “No,” she said. “I want to help you.”

I told the woman who I was buying for and why, then I sheepishly admitted I only had fifteen dollars to spend.  She looked as pleased and thoughtful as if I’d just asked to spend $1500.  By now, the department had emptied, but she carefully went around, selecting a few things that would make a nice basket.  The total came to $14.09.

The store was closing; as she rang up the purchase, the lights were turned off.

I was thinking that if I could take them home and wrap them, I could make them really pretty but I didn’t have time.

As if reading my mind, the saleslady asked, “Do you need this wrapped?”

“Yes,” I said.

By now the store was closed.  Over the intercom, a voice asked if there were still customers in the store.  I knew this woman was probably as eager to get home on Christmas Eve as everybody else, and here she was stuck waiting on some kid with a measly purchase.

But she was gone in the back room a long time.  When she returned, she brought out the most beautiful basket I’d ever seen.  It was all wrapped up in silver and gold, and looked as if I’d spent fifty dollars on it — at least.  I couldn’t believe it.  I was so happy!

When I thanked her, she said, “You elves are out in the mall spreading joy to so many people, I just wanted to bring a little joy to you.”

“Merry Christmas, Shelly,” I said back at the booth.  My manager gasped when she saw the present; she was so touched and happy that she started crying.  I hoped it gave a happy start to her Christmas.

All through the holidays, I couldn’t stop thinking about the kindness and effort of the saleswoman, and how much joy she had brought to me, and in turn to my manager.  I thought the least I could do was to write a letter to the store and let them know about it.  About a week later, I got a reply from the store, thanking me for writing.

I thought that was the end of it, until mid-January.

That’s when I got a call from Stephanie, the sales associate.  She wanted to take me to lunch.  Me, a fifteen-dollar, sixteen-year-old customer.

When we met, Stephanie gave me a hug, and a present, and told me this story.

She had walked into a recent employee meeting to find herself on the list of nominees to be named the Nordstrom All-Star.  She was confused but excited, as she had never before been nominated.  At the point in the meeting when the winner was announced, they called Stephanie — she’d won!  When she went up front to accept the award, her manager read my letter out loud.  Everyone gave her a huge round of applause.

Winning meant that her picture was put up in the store lobby, she got new business cards with Nordstrom All-Star written on them, a 14-karat gold pin, a 100-dollar award, and was invited to represent her department at the regional meeting.

At the regional meeting, they read my letter and everyone gave Stephanie a standing ovation.  “This is what we want all of our employees to be like!” said the manager who read the letter.  She got to meet three of the Nordstrom brothers, who were each very complimentary.

I was already a little overwhelmed when Stephanie took my hand.  “But that’s not the best part, Tyree,” she said.  “The day of that first store meeting, I took a list of the nominees, and put your letter behind it, with the 100-dollar bill behind that.  I took it home and gave it to my father.  He read everything and looked at me and said, “When do you find out who won?”

“I said, ‘I won, Dad.’”

“He looked me right in the eye and said, ‘Stephanie, I’m really proud of you.’”

Quietly, she said, “My dad has never said he was proud of me.”

I think I’ll remember that moment all my life.  That was when I realized what a powerful gift appreciation can be.  Shelly’s appreciation of her workers had set into motion a chain of events — Stephanie’s beautiful basket, my letter, Nordstrom’s award — that had changed at least three lives.

Though I’d heard it all my life, it was the Christmas when I was an elf — and a broke teenager — that I truly came to understand that the littlest things can make the biggest difference.

Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and a happy and prosperous New Year!

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Posted 8 months, 2 weeks ago at 9:05 am. Add a comment

So. How Do We Make The World Smile?

That’s an interesting question.  To answer it I’m going to tell you a little story I read in Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansens’ classic book “Chicken Soup for the Soul”.

A friend of ours was walking down a deserted Mexican beach at sunset.  As he walked along, he began to see another man in the distance.  As he grew nearer, he noticed that the local native kept leaning down, picking something up and throwing it out into the water.  Time and again he kept hurling things out into the ocean.

As our friend approached even closer, he noticed that the man was picking up starfish that had been washed up on the beach and, one at a time,he was throwing them back into the water.

Our friend was puzzled.  He approached the man and said, “Good evening, friend.  I was wondering what you are doing.”

“I’m throwing these starfish back into the ocean.  You see, it’s low tide right now and all of these starfish have been washed up onto the shore.  If I don’t throw them back into the sea, they’ll die up here from lack of oxygen.”

“I understand,” my friend replied, “but there must be thousands of starfish on this beach.  You can’t possibly get to all of them.  There are simply too many.  And don’t you realise this is probably happening on hundreds of beaches all up and down this coast.  Can’t you see that you can’t possibly make a difference?”

The local native smiled, bent down and picked up yet another starfish, and as he threw it back into the sea, he replied, “Made a difference to that one!”

Jack Canfield and Mark V Hansen

I’ve always loved this story and going over it again, while I’m sitting here typing it out on my computer, just reminds me that we are all important to someone or to something.

It reminds me that we all have the ability to make a difference – if we choose to do so. So the answer to the question is simple.  We make the world smile one face at a time.

Now I have to admit.  If it’s left to me on my own, then it’s never going to happen – but I can still make someone smile every day by doing just 1 Good Dee a Day.  I can still make a difference!   But when this idea came to me, I felt inspired by it.  If you, and other people that read this, feel inspired as well, and join me in my quest, then we get a step closer and we make more of a difference.

If all of us, then, continue to let other people in our life know what we’re doing, some of them will also become inspired to do 1 Good Deed a Day.  And as more and more of us continue to do our 1 Good Deed a Day – and share what we’re doing with others, we’ll gradually get to make the world smile.

Simple really!

So don’t hesitate.  In the words of Nike, “Just Do It!”.   Do it every day – and let everyone you know, know what you’re doing.  Share it on Facebook, Linkedin, Twitter or whatever socal media you choose to use.

Who knows what might happen.

To find out how  to join us click here.

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Posted 8 months, 3 weeks ago at 8:47 pm. Add a comment